Savor the Moment
The first Thanksgiving may have been held in Plymouth Colony in November, 1621, but it wasn’t until after the battle of Gettysburg, at the suggestion of a very persistent Mrs. Sarah J. Hale, that President Lincoln issued a proclamation designating a national day of thanksgiving. It’s a distinctly American holiday, right up there with the 4th of July, when families and friends alike gather under one roof to actually sit down together to enjoy a meal and relax in each other’s company.
With each passing Thanksgiving, I am reminded of how one year can make such a huge difference.
Chairs are shuffled, added, taken away.
Duties are reassigned.
Vegan and gluten-free selections are added to the traditional feast
The cherubs at the “kid’s table” are suddenly wielding carving knives.
If we gave everyone at our Thanksgiving get-together five minutes to recount their life in the past year, I’m pretty sure we would all be rendered speechless.
Not to mention more empathetic, inspired, proud, and forgiving.
A lot can happen in 12-months.
The worst involves loss – people, dreams, security, purpose.
The best, measureable gain – people, dreams, security, purpose.
I think it’s true of all of us that there are certain things we feel we could never endure or survive. But we can, and amazingly do, and sometimes the outcome of that test is measureable gain.
The Thanksgiving holiday is a good time to stay in the moment.
Instead of rushing off to the mall (for the Black Friday specials that started three weeks ago on a Monday), we might just want to be where we are, with the people we’re with.
I know a lot of people who start decorating their homes for Christmas during the Thanksgiving holiday.
The thought of it makes me hyperventilate.
I am trying mightily to keep the nouveau riche, gluttonous Santa Claus at bay — if only for one long weekend — before dragging out the Christmas decorations (didn’t I just put the porch furniture away…?) and trying to think of presents to buy for people who really don’t need another thing.
Thank God for Thanksgiving.
The pause that refreshes.
Anita Alvare (bio)/Alvare Associates/610-520-6140
Comments (12)
11.24.2015
Paul Connors
Thank you, Anita!
11.24.2015
Karen Thomson
Thinking of our girl this Thanksgiving. I recall she usually hosted a small intimate crowd of 25 or 30. There are a lot of people at lose ends this year in the Legere Clements family, I suspect.
The one thing I am thankful for are the friends that I’ve had for so many years. The one constant in a crazy world. I count you as one of them. Enjoy your day. Hugs, Karen
11.24.2015
Toni
So true the sentiment!!!
11.24.2015
Anne Antiskay
Anita, love your thoughts for Thanksgiving. It is indeed a very good time to be in the moment with family and friends. All the best to you and yours, Anne
11.24.2015
Steve Pijanowski
Very well stated, Anita. I enjoy Thanksgiving for what it is, a time to give thanks.
11.24.2015
kevin
The “sacred” pause that refreshes I might add.
I am grateful for much this week - this beautiful reflection is now added to this list
Thank you
11.24.2015
Chuck Alvaré
Yo, Neets—
One of your better posts. I enjoyed the “...cherubs at the “kid’s table” are suddenly wielding carving knives” and the hyperventilating over decorating at Thanksgiving. You know, I cannot remember a single Thanksgiving at home as a kid. but I have a few fleeting memories of the holiday after I left. Curious.
Anyway, have a happy Thanksgiving. Thanks for the laughs.
11.24.2015
Beke Beau
“GF right here!” - have a wonderful holiday, Anita!
11.24.2015
Jesse
Amen.
11.24.2015
Joan Rychalsky
Anita, how beautiful, thought-providing, peaceful and true. Thank you for this lovely, calming sharing. May we continue to think of it in the frenzy of the next 26 days. Love, Joan
11.24.2015
mimi hollway
Love it Anita. And is that Sharon’s house ? Sure looks like it. Ah the old wonderful neighborhood. Sorry to missed your call but I will get back to you real soon. There is lots to catch up on. What a year it has been. What a year it will be this coming one. I wonder if I can survive it ?
11.24.2015
Patty Presto
Thank you for the wonderful reminder of staying in the moment. I don’t decorate for Christmas until December 1st, and over the course of weekends until “the big day”. I come from a family that didn’t put up the tree until Christmas eve. It was magical, chaotic and amazing all rolled into one big wonderful memory.
I am holding all of the Alvare family in my heart here & in heaven. Happy Thanksgiving & grateful to have met you; along the way.