“If everyone is thinking alike, then someone isn’t thinking.”

George S. Patton, General U. S. Army

"It is better to keep your mouth closed and let people think you are a fool than to open it and remove all doubt."

Mark Twain

"The ancestor of every action is thought."

Emerson

"All that we are is the result of what we have thought."

Buddha

"When you are not told what to do you begin to think what to do."

Roger Cohen, Op-Ed Columnist New York Times

"No problem can withstand the assault of sustained thinking."

Voltaire

"Never be afraid to sit awhile and think."

Lorraine Hansberry, A Raisin in the Sun

"You and I are not what we eat; we are what we think."

Walter Anderson, The Confidence Course

"Did you ever stop to think, and forget to start again?"

Winnie the Pooh

"Time to think matters ─ at least if we’re interested in getting the answers right."

Stephen L. Carter

"Thinking is always out of order, interrupts all ordinary activities and is interrupted by them."

Hannah Arendt, Life of the Mind

"Too often we…enjoy the comfort of opinion without the discomfort of thought."

John F. Kennedy

"The trouble with most people is that they think with their hopes or fears or wishes rather than with their minds."

Will Durant

"Thinking is like living and dying. Each of us must do it for himself."

Josiah Royce

"Some people get lost in thought because it's such unfamiliar territory."

G. Behn

"The world we have created is a product of our thinking; it cannot be changed without changing our thinking."

Albert Einstein

"Pursuing our thoughts in silent contemplation takes an investment in time that few can spare."

Stephen L. Carter

"A moment’s thinking is an hour in words."

Thomas Hood

"Sometimes I think and other times I am."

Paul, Variete: Cantiques spirituels 192

"To think is to differ."

Darrow

"To think is to live."

Cicero

"A great many people think they are thinking when they are merely rearranging their prejudices."

William Jones

"What we think, we become."

Buddha

"Our job is not to make up anybody’s mind, but to open minds and to make the agony of the decision-making so intense you can escape only by thinking."

Anonymous

"The person who thinks before he speaks is silent most of the time."

Anonymous

"Think ─ and you will be very lonely."

Anonymous

"Thought is action in rehearsal."

Anonymous

"We live in a world that leaves very little time to contemplate."

Anonymous

"Don’t worry too much about what people think because they seldom do."

Anonymous

"Invest a few moments in thinking. It will pay good interest."

Anonymous

"One cannot think crooked and walk straight."

Anonymous

"Think Differently + Do Things Differently = Better Results"

Anonymous

November 24, 2015

Savor the Moment

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The first Thanksgiving may have been held in Plymouth Colony in November, 1621, but it wasn’t until after the battle of Gettysburg, at the suggestion of a very persistent Mrs. Sarah J. Hale, that President Lincoln issued a proclamation designating a national day of thanksgiving.  It’s a distinctly American holiday, right up there with the 4th of July, when families and friends alike gather under one roof to actually sit down together to enjoy a meal and relax in each other’s company.

With each passing Thanksgiving, I am reminded of how one year can make such a huge difference.

Chairs are shuffled, added, taken away.

Duties are reassigned.

Vegan and gluten-free selections are added to the traditional feast

The cherubs at the “kid’s table” are suddenly wielding carving knives.

If we gave everyone at our Thanksgiving get-together five minutes to recount their life in the past year, I’m pretty sure we would all be rendered speechless.

Not to mention more empathetic, inspired, proud, and forgiving.

A lot can happen in 12-months.

The worst involves loss – people, dreams, security, purpose.

The best, measureable gain – people, dreams, security, purpose.

I think it’s true of all of us that there are certain things we feel we could never endure or survive. But we can, and amazingly do, and sometimes the outcome of that test is measureable gain.

The Thanksgiving holiday is a good time to stay in the moment.

Instead of rushing off to the mall (for the Black Friday specials that started three weeks ago on a Monday), we might just want to be where we are, with the people we’re with.

I know a lot of people who start decorating their homes for Christmas during the Thanksgiving holiday.

The thought of it makes me hyperventilate.

I am trying mightily to keep the nouveau riche, gluttonous Santa Claus at bay — if only for one long weekend — before dragging out the Christmas decorations (didn’t I just put the porch furniture away…?) and trying to think of presents to buy for people who really don’t need another thing.

Thank God for Thanksgiving.

The pause that refreshes.

Anita Alvare (bio)/Alvare Associates/610-520-6140

Since establishing Alvaré in 1981, Anita has guided the agency through 38 years of steady growth and success. A marketing communications entrepreneur who has done it all, she remains deeply involved in strategic planning and creative direction, bringing extensive knowledge and insight to each client project.

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Comments (12)

11.24.2015
Paul Connors

Thank you, Anita!

11.24.2015
Karen Thomson

Thinking of our girl this Thanksgiving.  I recall she usually hosted a small intimate crowd of 25 or 30.  There are a lot of people at lose ends this year in the Legere Clements family, I suspect.

The one thing I am thankful for are the friends that I’ve had for so many years.  The one constant in a crazy world.  I count you as one of them.  Enjoy your day.  Hugs,  Karen

11.24.2015
Toni

So true the sentiment!!!

11.24.2015
Anne Antiskay

Anita, love your thoughts for Thanksgiving. It is indeed a very good time to be in the moment with family and friends.  All the best to you and yours, Anne

11.24.2015
Steve Pijanowski

Very well stated, Anita.  I enjoy Thanksgiving for what it is, a time to give thanks.

11.24.2015
kevin

The “sacred” pause that refreshes I might add.

I am grateful for much this week - this beautiful reflection is now added to this list


Thank you

11.24.2015
Chuck Alvaré

Yo, Neets—
One of your better posts. I enjoyed the “...cherubs at the “kid’s table” are suddenly wielding carving knives” and the hyperventilating over decorating at Thanksgiving. You know, I cannot remember a single Thanksgiving at home as a kid. but I have a few fleeting memories of the holiday after I left. Curious.

Anyway, have a happy Thanksgiving. Thanks for the laughs.

11.24.2015
Beke Beau

“GF right here!” - have a wonderful holiday, Anita!

11.24.2015
Jesse

Amen.

11.24.2015
Joan Rychalsky

Anita, how beautiful, thought-providing, peaceful and true.  Thank you for this lovely, calming sharing.  May we continue to think of it in the frenzy of the next 26 days.  Love, Joan

11.24.2015
mimi hollway

Love it Anita.  And is that Sharon’s house ?  Sure looks like it.  Ah the old wonderful neighborhood.  Sorry to missed your call but I will get back to you real soon.  There is lots to catch up on.  What a year it has been.  What a year it will be this coming one.  I wonder if I can survive it ?

11.24.2015
Patty Presto

Thank you for the wonderful reminder of staying in the moment. I don’t decorate for Christmas until December 1st, and over the course of weekends until “the big day”.  I come from a family that didn’t put up the tree until Christmas eve. It was magical, chaotic and amazing all rolled into one big wonderful memory.
I am holding all of the Alvare family in my heart here & in heaven.  Happy Thanksgiving & grateful to have met you; along the way.